B) Match the words with their definitions.
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1 anxiety athe feeling of wanting something that0
2 envy someone else has c
3 handicap ban inability to use your body or mind UJ
4 intelligence because it has been damaged0
5 rage csomething that is done as a reaction to -<
6 response something that has happened0
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7 to stunt dis easily harmed or hurt emotionally, .;
8 contented physically or morally :I
9 vulnerable ehappy and satisfied because your life is good
fan ability to learn, understand and think about things
gto stop something from growing to their full
size of developing properly
hthe feeling of being very worried about something that may happen
ia strong feeling of uncontrollable anger
A) Listen about dealing with emotions and decide which one of the following ideas
(a-f) is not in the
Information.
aEmotions are exciting.
bWe need emotions in order to survive.
c Without emotions, we're just like robots.
dEmotions create problems.
eWe need to be aware of our emotions.
fWe should control our emotions and be sensitive towards those of other people.
What about the other ideas?
B) Listen again and say which of the ideas in task (a) best summarises the main message of the article.
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I'G)a) Read to learn about emotional intelligence and some
.- of Mr Goleman's suggestions to control emotions.
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• self-awareness- knowing your emotions, recognising your feelings as they occur and discriminating between them
• mood management-handling feelings so they're relevant to the current situation and you react appropriately
• self-motivation- directing yourself towards a goal
• empathy-recognising feelings in others
• managing relationships- handling interpersonal interaction, conflict resolution and negotiations
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an anxiety[reo'za!eti]
an envy['envi]
·a handicap['hrend1krep]
an intelligence[m'tehd;sans]
an illiteracy[i'htarasi]
a rage[re1d;sl
a response[n'spons]
to stunt[stt..nt] contented[kan'tentld] vulnerable['vt..lnarabl]
• to carry away
• to gain control
And how can we control our emotions? Here are some suggestions:
1 Face the emotion. Be aware of the
feeling.
2 Analyse the situation. Are you sure that the situation really is as you think it is? Perhaps you've misinterpreted it.
3 Use up the extra energy. Do something that helps you 'let off steam'.
4 Do something that improves the situation. For example, if you
are afraid of failing an exam, work on the subject so there is no reason to fear. If you
are afraid of talking to people
at a party, practise going up to
people and talking to them.
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Date: 2016-03-03; view: 2009
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