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Explore and Apply the Ideas in This ChapterCommunication anxiety bothers many public speakers. It can be especially debilitating to students who think that everyone in the class is more confident than they are. We use the term communication anxiety rather than stage fright because public speaking should be an interactive communication act, not a performance. Understanding Communication Anxiety. The symptoms of communication anxiety are more obvious to the person suffering from them than to observers. There is a positive side to communication anxiety: it can energize your presentation. Public speaking can be frightening because it is not an everyday activity and because you usually speak in public only on important occasions. If you suffer from anxiety sensitivity, your fear of fear itself may make the situation worse. If you are a perfectionist, you may put too much pressure on yourself. You may see the audience as predators waiting to make fun of you, but most college student audiences want speakers to be successful. Although you may think everyone can tell In Summary how nervous you are, they usually cannot. You may fear that something dreadful will happen to you, but it rarely happens. Some of the major fears that make up communication anxiety include worrying about trembling or shaking, having your mind go blank, embarrassing yourself, being unable to continue, not making sense, and sounding foolish. Many of these fears are irrational. Ways to Control Communication Anxiety. There are several ways you can reduce the discomfort of communication anxiety. You can practice selective relaxation to reduce bodily tension. You should adopt a communication orientation, keeping your focus on your message. Practice cognitive restructuring to replace negative messages to yourself with positive ones. Develop a visualization script that pictures you succeeding as a speaker. Learn and practice speaking skills so that you develop greater confidence. These techniques usually help, and they work best in combination. your speech by telling the audience how frightened you are. When you come to the end of your message, maintain eye contact for a short time, and then walk confidently back to your seat. Even though you may feel relieved that your speech is over, don t say Whew! or I made it! And never show disappointment with your presentation. You probably did better than you thought. Do these techniques really work, and is such advice helpful? Research related to communication anxiety has established the following conclusions: (1) Such techniques do work, and (2) they work best in combination.18 Controlling anxiety takes time. As you become more experienced at giving speeches and at using the suggestions in Speaker s Notes 2.3, you will find your fears lessening, and you will be able to convert more of your communication anxiety into positive, constructive energy.19 Public Speaking, Eighth Edition, by Michael Osborn, Suzanne Osborn and Randall Osborn. Published by Allyn & Bacon. Copyright © 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. 3. List the three major reasons that you are afraid of making a speech. Try to be precise as you complete the expressions Im afraid that . . . or Im afraid because . . . Go over your list and classify each of these fears as rational or irrational. Now develop a plan to counter them. Try to use selective relaxation, cognitive restructuring, visualization, and speech practice techniques. Which of these techniques proves most and least useful in controlling your fears? 4. Write out your own script for success for the presentation of your first speech in this class. Provide your instructor with a copy, and then use it as you prepare for your presentation.
abrina Karic worried about her first speech. Her instructor had assigned a speech of self-introduction, but Sabrina wondered how she might reach out to her University of Nevada Las Vegas student audience. Her world and theirs seemed so far apart. She decided finally that she would share her experiences as a six-year-old child who had somehow survived ethnic cleansing in Bosnia and Herzegovina. She described having to endure endless nights S Public Speaking, Eighth Edition, by Michael Osborn, Suzanne Osborn and Randall Osborn. Published by Allyn & Bacon. Copyright © 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. 46 Part One The Foundations of Public Speaking sleeping under the trees while rain poured down on us and mice crawled over our bodies. . . . Nothing, she concluded, etches itself more in young memory than the pain of hunger. Sabrina ended her speech with a plea for all the six year olds who experience prejudice and hatred and violence they can t understand. Her warmly received speech appears at the end of this chapter. Many of you may share Sabrina s concerns when faced with your first speech. You may not think you have anything interesting to say, and you may not feel prepared to speak effectively. Consequently, you may be pleasantly surprised when you not only survive your first speech but actually do some things quite well. The first speeches in a class can help build a communication climate that nurtures effective speaking and listening. No matter what the exact nature of your assignment, your first speech can serve three useful purposes. I It gets you speaking early in the course so that you don t build up an unhealthy level of communication apprehension. I It introduces you to the basic skills needed to develop a speech and present it effectively. I It can establish you as a credible speaker. In this chapter, we show you how to get off on the right foot by managing the important first impressions you make as a speaker. Before the opening round of speeches, you and your classmates are usually strangers. These first speeches are often called icebreakers because they offer a chance to get acquainted. You may discover that your classmates are interesting human beings. What you learn about them will help you prepare later speeches and give you insights into their knowledge, interests, attitudes, and motivations. Because it is easier to communicate with people you know, you should feel more comfortable about speaking before them. Much of the information in this chapter is explored in greater detail later in the text. But the basics we cover here are necessary before you present your first speech. You need to know how to I Find a subject that is right for you. I Focus your topic so that your speech will serve listeners well. I Use supporting materials to add interest and substance to your speech. I Design and outline your speech. I Develop and practice presentation skills. This chapter provides an overview of these skills so that you can achieve initial success and then build upon it as you learn more and present other speeches. Public Speaking, Eighth Edition, by Michael Osborn, Suzanne Osborn and Randall Osborn. Published by Allyn & Bacon. Copyright © 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. Chapter 3 Your First Speech: An Overview of Speech Preparation 47 Date: 2015-02-16; view: 983
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