Specific Public Speaking FearsType of Fear Percent Reporting
Trembling or shaking 80%
Mind going blank 74%
Doing or saying something embarrassing 64%
Unable to continue talking 63%
Not making sense 59%
Sounding foolish 59%
Figure 2.3
As a homework assignment, ask
students to identify the specific
fears they have about public
speaking. Collate their responses,
and compare them with the list
in Figure 2.3.
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they had planned to say something or what they intended to say next. Back in high
school, you might have had to memorize a passage to recite in class the Gettysburg
Address, a scene from Shakespeare, or a poem and you may have drawn a
blank during your performance. It was probably traumatic standing in front of a
class full of adolescents who just couldn t wait to tease you about it. Your college
classroom audience will be more forgiving, but having your mind go blank is one
of the major pitfalls of memorized presentations. It is one of the reasons that we
do not recommend memorizing your speeches (see modes of presentation in
Chapter 13).
An effective speech is presented extemporaneously prepared and practiced but
not written out and memorized. If you practice your speech using a key-word outline
and keep the outline handy as you present your speech, drawing a blank should
not be a major problem for you. If after all this, you do experience one of those rare
moments when you simply can t remember what to say next, rephrase what you
have just said. Audiences expect summaries in speeches, and going back over your
material should help get you back on track.
Even if you don t say exactly what you had planned to say exactly as you had
planned to say it, the audience won t know it unless you tell them.
Embarrassing Yourself. Whenever you speak before a group, you are putting
yourself in the spotlight. The spotlight is bright and all eyes are on you. One of
our students brought home the meaning of being in the spotlight to us. She was a
cheerleader at Indiana University. One day she came into our office to ask for advice
on controlling her communication anxiety. You re nervous about speaking to
twenty students! we exclaimed. Why, every weekend you re out there in front of
sixty thousand people in the stadium! That s different, she replied. Out there,
Im not really in the spotlight. Those sixty thousand fans are focused on the game. In
this class, the twenty students are focused on me.
What can you possibly do during a speech that would be all that embarrassing?
Tremble in front of people? we ve already discussed that. Forget how you
planned to say something? no big deal. Mispronounce big words or technical
terms? look them up ahead of time. Flub a word? everyone misuses or mispronounces
a word from time to time. Save being embarrassed for the truly ludicrous
things that might happen in your life, and keep in mind that you will survive even
those.
The first class one of your authors ever taught in college was a large lecture
class held in a large auditorium. During the first exam, a student asked her to
cut off the air conditioners that were making a racket. She shut off the air conditioner
on one side of the stage and was walking across to the other side, not
looking where she was going, and tripped over the base of the free-standing
chalkboard, falling flat on her face in front of 250 students.
Now, that s embarrassing, especially for a first-time teaching assistant. She
was praying there d be a trap door she could fall through, but of course there
wasn t. To her amazement, however, no one was laughing. The expressions on
the faces she could see were ones of concern. She picked herself up, brushed
the dirt off her clothes, and muttered something like, Grace is my middle
name! The students looks changed from concern to relief when they realized
she wasn t hurt. To her everlasting surprise, the sun rose as usual the next
morning. And regardless of how embarrassed she had felt, she had to show up
for the next class.
ESL: Ask your ESL students to
share what speakers in their
culture might find especially
embarrassing.
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Chances are, nothing like this will happen to you in your public speaking class,
but if it does, you will survive it, and you may be even stronger because of it.
Unable to Continue Talking. Although almost two-thirds of the people in
the general population survey mentioned the inability to continue talking as a specific
concern, it very rarely happens even to the most anxious of students.
On very, very rare occasions, a student may experience a panic attack. You re
going along presenting your speech, everything is going well, when you suddenly
feel overwhelmed with fear for no apparent reason. Not only are you afraid, but you
also realize that the fear is irrational, and you think perhaps you re losing it. You
really want to drop your notes and bolt for the door.
Don t do it! Decide to weather the storm. Mark Twain once said, Courage is
resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear. A panic attack is usually
short. It may last only a few seconds (although it may feel as though it s going on
forever). Keep talking. Look for the friendliest face in the audience and direct your
words to that person. Accept your fear for what it is, a temporary aberration. It will
probably never happen again, but if you are worried about it, schedule an appointment
with your instructor to discuss it.
Making No Sense and Sounding Foolish. Most speakers who don t
make sense and who sound foolish do so because they have not adequately prepared
for their presentations. The remainder of this book is devoted to helping you
prepare and present speeches that do make sense and sound intelligent. You will
learn how to analyze your listeners and how to adapt your messages to their needs
and interests. You will learn how to gain responsible knowledge through research
and how to use this material to support your ideas. You will learn how to structure
and organize your messages clearly and how to use oral language effectively. All of
this information will help ensure that you make sense and don t sound foolish.
On the other hand, if you take your assignments lightly, don t adequately prepare,
and don t practice for your presentations, you ve earned the right to be anxious
and to suffer the consequences.
Negative Consequences. Anticipating negative results was an important concern
of the students who were surveyed but not with the general population group.
For students, the negative consequences were typically related to the grade they might
receive on the speaking assignment (yet students who insist that they are most concerned
about their grade are typically just as anxious when making ungraded presentations).
Although grades may seem like a rational cause for concern, worrying about
them diverts your focus from what should be your main concern.
If you prepare your speeches solely for the purpose of making a good grade,
you are not going to be a very successful speaker. Your main purpose for speaking must
be to communicate something to your audience to provide them with new, interesting,
or useful information or to convince them to change their ways of thinking or
behaving.
Presentation Anxiety
Presentation anxiety is the discomfort you may feel while actually giving a speech.
How much anxiety you experience as you present your speech is related to how
much anticipatory anxiety you build up ahead of time. If you can keep your prespeech
anxiety under control, you will feel better as you give your speech.
presentation anxiety The fear reactions
that occur during the presentation
of a speech.
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You will probably be most nervous when you first start to speak.12 Then, as you
get used to the situation, you should gain confidence. Research shows that as you
get into the presentation of your speech, your nervousness diminishes. Prepare your
introduction carefully, and practice it until it flows easily. Keep your focus on what
you want to communicate to your audience.
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